Clare always dreamed about getting married and this time, with Charles, she was once again sure that he was her prince charming. Without being fully aware of it, she kept dropping what she thought were subtle hints about getting married. She would stop and gaze at engagement rings at the mall and point out her favorites, she would talk about her dream wedding and even about how many kids she knew she would have. Ultimately, Charles broke up with her. He wasn’t ready to commit. What Clare didn’t see was that she had gone through the exact same thing with her last three boyfriends, all of whom were men who were afraid of commitment. Was Clare truly ready for commitment too?
Even though Clare wanted to get married, she first needed to look at what her fears were around commitment. Clare was carrying fears left over from two boyfriends back. She was afraid of being dumped, which is why she pushed her newest partners into committing so quickly, so that she could feel safe. This only drove them away faster than she could keep them. She didn’t trust they would stay loyal to her until she had an engagement ring, and maybe not even then. And, she kept dating the exact same kind of guy even though it didn’t work. What was Clare doing to keep staying stuck in this pattern of being dumped when all she really wanted was to be in a relationship?
How do you find that ‘perfect soul mate’ relationship? There are three very important things you need to consider whenever you are looking to start a relationship. The first thing is that you need to be honest with yourself about the kind of person you want to attract. Think about which traits are essential to you, which ones are great bonuses and which ones you simply can’t tolerate. If you know you want to date someone who is ready to commit, don’t just go out with the drunken guy you met at the bar. Set your expectations a little higher.
Then think about the kind of relationship you want to have. Are you looking for something fun and free? Are you looking for something serious? This will also make things clearer for you, leading you to a point where you will consider the moment of life you’re in and your expectations for the future.
Finally, you need to create a Relationship Affirmation that sums this up. It should be something you can repeat on a daily basis, reminding yourself and the universe about what you want. Love attraction is just a few steps away and if you take the time to really dig deep and find out what you want, it will make the process that much easier.
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“On the promise of the present…love interrupts the past and opens the future to new probabilities, for in the present, all things are possible.” ~ Marianne Williamson
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